We make decisions everyday. Sometimes we question ourselves, so much, that we pass up opportunities, experiences and even mistakes. We later ask ourselves what would have been... if we had made another decision. We spend so much time questioning ourselves about the decisions of the past that we forgot to make the decisions in the present...worrying about those of the future. There are no bad or good decisions in the past; There are only decisions to make in the present and not think about what decisions you should make in the future.
If for some reason you made a decision that change your present life and even the decisions you should make in the future; Do not worry, there is always a purpose and you just have to take control of your life and your dreams. Yes, it will not be easy or fast, but it will happen.
There are many stories that we live personally or through people we love. I experienced the difficulties of people whom I love very much in the face of the adversity that arose from life itself or from decisions that we question daily. Maybe yes, it would have been different if the decision we made at a crucial moment could have had another end, but we cannot live asking the decisions of the past. There is no life in the past just an experience that we must learn and try not to repeat decisions that were not successful.
My dad was diagnosed with cancer in the metastasis stage. His doctors told him that he had been suffering from this disease for many years. My father was a very strong, hardworking and sound person, but he never went to the doctor. On one occasion they told him that he had a withered black in his kidney, but he never wanted to verify what it was. At a time like this we always wonders what it would have been like if: -he had decided to go to the doctor before-. However, the decisions or omissions of them are only a past that serves to know that everything has its consequences and we must react to our present. He was always determined and decided to fight until the end, we learned that the present is the most valuable privilege that we have, and we must treasure that time without thinking about a past of questions, a present without life and a future that we do not know if it exists. We enjoy the day to day as if there were no future and as without questioning the past. We should never stop spending time even if our decisions have not been the most accurate.
My sister has been a single mother the youngest years of her life. The people she chose to be the parents of her daughters were not the people she dreamed about and who in the depths of her heart she probably knew. She is a strong, intelligent woman with an infinite love for her daughters. On one occasion they advised her that they were not the people she really deserved, but she never saw anyone's bad intentions. She only saw that illusion that makes us see that everything is beautiful and perfect. At a time like this we wonder: -if I had listened to those people-. However, a decision does not determine how your future will be and how far you can go. We have many options to make the decisions that will make us happy. We must not live in the past. Her determination and dedication teach me that there are no impediments to be who you want in life. The most important thing is to make decisions in the present that allow us to grow without allowing the shadows of a past to drag you to it and not let you come out. It is not easy to go ahead alone, much less when you have two beings who depend on you all the time. Your past decisions were not an impediment to enjoy your present with the most beautiful gift that life can give you. Also, she learned that life is not what we dream of in the future, but that we build it from the present. Today, she is a professional, mother of two university students who only build their dream of life living step by step from the hand of God.
There are many decisions that we make throughout our lives. Let us not get out of our way; shape our future enjoying the present.
Overcoming comes from your determination and your desire to give and be the person that God has always known you are.